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S H asked:


If I allow him to have a girlfriend on the side!

(married since Dec 2008)
He said that if I allow this he will be happy, in turn, I will benefit by the fact that he will treat me better, more loving, etc.
I am NOT into cheating in marriage.
I know I am codependent, but this request is WAY out there!!!

I am 4 months pregnant and he REALLY wants this baby. He cares more about baby than about me.
I have a 5 yr old with me and he has 2 kids that live with their mom (prev marriages)

Anyway, I am posting to hear OPINIONS, no need to be rude or mean.
I know I don’t approve, but just want to hear the community’s thoughts on this topic.
btw he has Borderline Personality Disorder.
Thanks for your input :)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Borderline_personality_disorder