My wife and I have been married for five years, and we can’t seem to trust each other. I feel it’s because of how we got together. We were friends in college, and kept the friendship after I married my first wife. In college, I always wanted to be with my friend, but she was involved with two other guys. When I got married, I was still thinking of being with her, and I believe I lacked the compassion to be a better husband for my wife which (I know) lead to our divorce. Before the divorce was final, I finally gained my friend’s heart, and 4 months after the divorce, we got married. Before our marriage, she had SEVERAL BAD relationships, and I was her shoulder. Now that we’re together, we can’t trust each other. And now, I received a wrong number call, & my wife heard my phone ring at 2am. I called the number back and I didn’t recognize the name or voice. I assumed it was a wrong number and I deleted it. My wife says I deleted it so she wouldn’t see who call. Help me understand my error