February 18th, 2010
John Neufeld asked:
Dear Hurting Christian Reader,
If you are a Christian then the question, how to save my marriage is, an especially painful one. It’s not what you bargained for when you said “I do” before God, family and friends. The feeling of isolation and embarrassment and sometimes judgment adds to your misery. You may be thinking is there something I can do?
The answer is yes. But first, remember you are not alone. There were over 2.2 million divorces in the US in 2008 alone. I know that is cold comfort. But there is hope in those numbers.
That sobering fact indicates that there will be a high number of counselors you could turn to for help. However, if you are looking for a Christian marriage counselor then those numbers are much lower. I happen to be one of them.
However, even a Christian counselor may not be the best answer for you.
Obstacles to Getting the Help You Need
Several factors may make that kind of help out of reach.
The first and most obvious one is cost. Counseling is expensive and time consuming. In addition to the actual counseling costs there may be lost wages to attend the sessions.
A second obstacle may be the fact that many of these counselors are connected to a denomination or church of which you may not be a member or you don’t want to discuss your situation with them.
A third problem may be proximity. If you are located away from an urban center then you may be out of luck even if you can afford the services.
A fourth very common problem may be the reluctance of your partner to join you. Your spouse may not think the problem is as critical as you think it is, or he may believe that if you just read your Bible or pray more everything will work out, or he may have given up on the marriage altogether, or he may be in another relationship or a host of other reasons may be given to avoid counseling.
If you’re facing any of these obstacles you may be asking, is there some other way for me to save my marriage.
The answer is a definite yes.
Getting Around the Obstacles So You Can Get the Help You Need
There are several counseling services available that you can access online. These are very affordable in comparison to traditional counseling and they have a strong proven track record. However, very few are specifically aimed at the Christian couple.
That’s where Save Your Christian Marriage comes in. It comes highly recommended by many who have benefited from it.
This manual solves all four major obstacles.
First it is much more affordable than traditional counseling.
Second, you can work at it from the comfort of your own home. There is no need to discuss your problems with someone you might not feel comfortable with.
Third, you can do it even if your spouse won’t join you. This course have been designed for you to work at without your partner even being aware of it. The things you will learn will help you know how to make personal changes and thereby influence your partner to change.
Fourth, it is specifically aimed at the Christian couple who wants to honor Christ with their marriage.
At the time of this writing the author has a very encouraging audio message on this site. Click here to listen to it.
Dear Hurting Christian Reader,
If you are a Christian then the question, how to save my marriage is, an especially painful one. It’s not what you bargained for when you said “I do” before God, family and friends. The feeling of isolation and embarrassment and sometimes judgment adds to your misery. You may be thinking is there something I can do?
The answer is yes. But first, remember you are not alone. There were over 2.2 million divorces in the US in 2008 alone. I know that is cold comfort. But there is hope in those numbers.
That sobering fact indicates that there will be a high number of counselors you could turn to for help. However, if you are looking for a Christian marriage counselor then those numbers are much lower. I happen to be one of them.
However, even a Christian counselor may not be the best answer for you.
Obstacles to Getting the Help You Need
Several factors may make that kind of help out of reach.
The first and most obvious one is cost. Counseling is expensive and time consuming. In addition to the actual counseling costs there may be lost wages to attend the sessions.
A second obstacle may be the fact that many of these counselors are connected to a denomination or church of which you may not be a member or you don’t want to discuss your situation with them.
A third problem may be proximity. If you are located away from an urban center then you may be out of luck even if you can afford the services.
A fourth very common problem may be the reluctance of your partner to join you. Your spouse may not think the problem is as critical as you think it is, or he may believe that if you just read your Bible or pray more everything will work out, or he may have given up on the marriage altogether, or he may be in another relationship or a host of other reasons may be given to avoid counseling.
If you’re facing any of these obstacles you may be asking, is there some other way for me to save my marriage.
The answer is a definite yes.
Getting Around the Obstacles So You Can Get the Help You Need
There are several counseling services available that you can access online. These are very affordable in comparison to traditional counseling and they have a strong proven track record. However, very few are specifically aimed at the Christian couple.
That’s where Save Your Christian Marriage comes in. It comes highly recommended by many who have benefited from it.
This manual solves all four major obstacles.
First it is much more affordable than traditional counseling.
Second, you can work at it from the comfort of your own home. There is no need to discuss your problems with someone you might not feel comfortable with.
Third, you can do it even if your spouse won’t join you. This course have been designed for you to work at without your partner even being aware of it. The things you will learn will help you know how to make personal changes and thereby influence your partner to change.
Fourth, it is specifically aimed at the Christian couple who wants to honor Christ with their marriage.
At the time of this writing the author has a very encouraging audio message on this site. Click here to listen to it.
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