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Michelle asked:


I started talking to this guy and we hit it off great on the first date.. the 2nd was good. but he was hinting on how physically attracted he was to me… and i mentioned that i was saving myself till marriage.. (im not a virgn but its a choice i made when i had ended my heart wrenching past relationship within the past year)

anyways.. after that evening i noticed he changed a bit. makeing comments like.. i have friends i wouldnt mind introducing you too.. and i think we should are better off as friends.

Im al for the friends thing. So 3 weeks pass and he contacts me txt “miss u babe”.. and i want to see u.. and flirting txts.

so i go see him and when i do hes semi flirting.. then we start talking about what weve been up to.. and i mentioned a friend that i was about to be intimate with but icouldnt bc i just wasnt ready like i thought.. and this guy im talking to acted all “cool” about it..and the subject changed… but as the night went on his answers were short.. and he seemed annoyed with me. we didnt have great conversation and when i left. he ws just started to act wierd. and kept telling me i think were better as friends.

Ok my questions.. im new to dating… was i too forward and honest? ?? bc i thought i could be honest like that bc he mentions at times that hes going to hang out with his ex.. and i dont say anything.. or act different. so i thought if i was honest.. it wouldnt be a problem, i clearly like this guy and i would like to talk to him again….

any tips on what to say or to avoid on a date.?? advice for anything else??