July 18th, 2010
sunshinegirl802 asked:
I am saving myself for marriage & my boyfriend is not. I know he wants sex with me really really bad, and i want it too but tell him no everytime because i am REALLY serious about saving myself. Now we’ve done pretty much everything right up to intercourse but now i’m getting to the point where i don’t know what to do. Its soooo important to him & i always feel so bad whenever i say no. Does anyone have any really good tips on staying strong. I’m scared i’m gonna cave in very very soon. And please don’t tell me i should breakup with him b/c that’s not an option. thanks! =)
I am saving myself for marriage & my boyfriend is not. I know he wants sex with me really really bad, and i want it too but tell him no everytime because i am REALLY serious about saving myself. Now we’ve done pretty much everything right up to intercourse but now i’m getting to the point where i don’t know what to do. Its soooo important to him & i always feel so bad whenever i say no. Does anyone have any really good tips on staying strong. I’m scared i’m gonna cave in very very soon. And please don’t tell me i should breakup with him b/c that’s not an option. thanks! =)
July 18th, 2010
nicesinging1 asked:
Hello. I am a 24 yr old guy who has been struggling mightily with a lust problem. I have a habit of occasional masturbation and watching porn. However, i am a virgin and will be that way till marriage.
I have tried extremely hard to put an end to my masturbation and porn habit. But I always fail. The longest I went without masturbation and porn is 60 days. I wish I would be able to totally refrain from masturbation and porn so I can feel not guilty and totally concentrate all my efforts and hearts on what is more important such as careers, school, friendship.
It seems my efforts is not enough because I really tried extremely hard for long duration of time to be free from these sins. But the fact is I am still struggling.
I need some serious advices and suggestions on how to curb these habits completely. Can you offer me some serious advice?
Hello. I am a 24 yr old guy who has been struggling mightily with a lust problem. I have a habit of occasional masturbation and watching porn. However, i am a virgin and will be that way till marriage.
I have tried extremely hard to put an end to my masturbation and porn habit. But I always fail. The longest I went without masturbation and porn is 60 days. I wish I would be able to totally refrain from masturbation and porn so I can feel not guilty and totally concentrate all my efforts and hearts on what is more important such as careers, school, friendship.
It seems my efforts is not enough because I really tried extremely hard for long duration of time to be free from these sins. But the fact is I am still struggling.
I need some serious advices and suggestions on how to curb these habits completely. Can you offer me some serious advice?
June 14th, 2010
huurduur asked:
First of all, let me say that I respect this conviction to stay celibate although it is far from my personal beliefs.
First of all, let me say that I respect this conviction to stay celibate although it is far from my personal beliefs.
Christians, many of you choose to remain celibate until marriage.
How many of you actually have done this? I mean, how common is it really? I do not believe people normally stick to it.
Those who want to remain celibate, have you ever been in a long lasting relationship with a member of the opposite sex?
Would you condemn someone who does engage in sexual activity before marriage even if they had been in a long as loving relationship?
June 6th, 2010
April 23rd, 2010
bsktballgrl94 asked:
They recently told a girl’s Christian magazine that they refused to do an interview because they were tired of talking about their purity rings, which means they refuse to engage in sexual activity until marriage. My question is, why would they be ashamed to talk about it instead of leading more people to make the same decision?
They recently told a girl’s Christian magazine that they refused to do an interview because they were tired of talking about their purity rings, which means they refuse to engage in sexual activity until marriage. My question is, why would they be ashamed to talk about it instead of leading more people to make the same decision?
