daniel makes laura purple ;o! asked:


My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 19 months now and I love him to death. He means the world to me. For around..maybe 7 months of that we’ve been sexually active but hadn’t had sex. I felt a little guilty because when i told my pals about him they had no idea about the stuff we did–i realized how great our relationship must have sounded to them. I want that relationship..when I told my bf, Daniel, about deciding to be abstinent until marriage and stop all the sexual activities..he wasn’t supportive. I know it wasn’t fair to suddenly deny that stuff to him but I thought he’d do it for me. We argue a lot and flip flop from being totally well-behaved and him not doing innocent stuff like saying my jeans look good on me when i say they don’t because its “sexual” and then trying to be both romantic and sexual. I’d always be too nonsexual around him and he’s wondering what changed. I know i changed my mind about sexual activities and it’s not fair to him but I thought he’d support me..but I feel like he’s trying to change my mind. Oh and the best part..? I can’t live without him. I really love him. What can I say to him to tell him im serious about this?
My reason is that I want to do things the “right” way; the “fairy tale” relationship. I wanted to feel as pure and as good of a person as my friend thought i was. I truthfully thought it’d be an easy switch from sexual acts and romance to just romance. Boy was I wrong. Thank you so much for your support guys..This really is difficult..

Dave asked:


I broke up with my girlfriend and because she was religious we never got to have sex. I loved her a lot and I wanted to lose it to her because I felt it was right to have sex with the person you love. We broke up because of timing problems (didn’t see a future, we’re too young)

I’m still a virgin myself but I am definitely a horny guy.
I just have strong principals myself. Just that after the break-up I have an urge to have oral sex with girls with no strings attached. I know that this will really stuff up my life and I am eventually going to be tempted to have sexual intercoarse with a girl.

~A Musician’s Dream~ asked:


I’m really shy…
Well, there are times when I can say and do just about anything with him, but then there are times when I just want to run away and crawl back into my shell. I love him with all my heart. I think about him constantly when he’s not with me. And when we’re together, I feel so comfortable and secure with him. I can talk to him about a lot of things–movies, school, music–basic stuff. But when he wants to be a little more intimate, when he wants to talk about feelings, I shut down.
We’re on Christmas break from college so we text and call each other cause we can’t see each other cause we’re several hundred miles away from each other
Tonight we were texting and I’d asked him what he’d do if he were with me. What he said ain’t rated PG-13 so I ain’t gone spell the details out. I told him he was making me feel shy and that’s when he asked me to just open up and be myself…But it’s hard cause I’m shy in nature. I’d told him that I’m really trying to be a good girl, but he makes me want to just throw that idea out. I’m a virgin and I’m saving myself for marriage. My problem is that he’s my first boyfriend…and he’s not a virgin. When he wants to get intimate, I don’t know what to do or say. I freeze up. He called me indecisive, but my indecisiveness stems from my shyness.
*SIGH* Any advice or tips on how I can open up and just be myself? I don’t wear my heart on my sleeve…I keep my feelings to myself. I’m so good at it, my friend said that I’m emotionless, LOL. When my boyfriend asks about my feelings, I just sit there quietly…not saying a word. What’s a girl to do?

*SIGH* I’m such a Virgo!!!!