Brad asked:


Anyone have any good tips for dealing with someones history?

Theres a girl I’m with now and I like her a ton, but she’s way way way more experienced and that has me nervous and feeling inadequate, and then other times I just catch myself thinking about her history and kinda getting intimidated/creeped out by it. She’s been with a LOT of guys which normally scares me away, but she’s tamed down since graduating college, and I was saving myself for marriage (although I’m now divorced).

AzN BiKeR asked:


I’m a good boy always got good marks in school and I am Filipino. I treat women with respect and i always wear a tie to a date even if its just for some coffee(yuk!) but i need honest feedback would you date an asian guy cuz i know some girls dont like asians but im a gentlemen and i always say the right thing my friends that r girls say…i never kiss on a first date and i am saving sex for marriage cuz of my cathlic upbringing…btw i look like i do in that avatar so would u date me if u knew me n thought i was a good person??? any tips are appreciated…….^_^
mexican girls are ok too just i already know asians will date me but i just wonder if others will
blkgirl i wasnt asking u……

helluvaride128 asked:


im 19 and a saving myself for marriage.
my boyfriend is 22 and has had multiple partners before.
i explained how i felt about sex at the beginning of our relationship when he had adequate time to run (lol) 5 months ago.
we both pleasure each other (oral, touching) and i feel like ive already gone over my boundary to make him happy.
but then a few days ago he got into a huff and was like, “were never gonna have sex, are we” and he sounded so upset.
i started to get emotional because i feel very badly for not giving him the pleasure he wants. I love him dearly and it breaks my heart. In the same note, I dont want to break away from my beliefs to satisfy a man. Not to mention, i felt pressured into having sex because of what he was saying, which made me feel like he didnt care about me.

Im so torn (pun not intended hah)! but really, could anyone give me advice for what to say to my boyfriend in this situation.

Rac A asked:


Every time I make out with my girlfriend, it goes one step further. First it was passionate kissing, then some fondling, then some dry humping, then lots of dry humping. We’ve both got naturally aggressive drives, and we feed off each other, and so it just ends up happening. It feels amazing, we are very compatible physically, and now we’re finding we both crave sex.

But we’re both intending to save sex ’til marriage. I’m 25 and still a virgin…she’s 19 and hadn’t been kissed before me… so this is a discipline that we very much want to keep until we’re married to our spouses. We know that we would feel really guilty if we “blow” it, as well as messing up future potential of a blessed marriage with any spouse.

Scooterman asked:


My girlfriend and i kiss all the time, but have never actually made out. We both agreed on no sex/sexual activities before marriage. although i really want to make out with her, how can i tell whether she wants to make out with me too?