July 17th, 2010
Why do people think affairs about love or sex? I have noticed here that people think outside marriage attention is sex and love. Did it occur to you that it might be a lack of communication, appreciation or intimacy. Intimacy is not always sex. Why do you feel outside marriage activity is always about sex and love?
July 11th, 2010
I love my husband so much. My husband and I did not have sexual intercourse until we were married but we did kiss quite a bit and did 4 play on occasion at times; and this is a 10 year relationship before marriage. Now that we’ve been married for about 3 months we do not kiss much. He used to say that he didn’t want to kiss much because it would make him want to have sex and since we are believers we did not believe in having any sexual encounters until marriage (even though we did four play that we thought was wrong) at times.
We do other four play and usually just sex. He has gotten better wth trying to do more intimate activities since I mentioned it to him, but as far as kissing goes he still does not do that unless I ask. It’s like maybe he’s not thinking about it and just thinking about sex. I know that he thinks I’m very hot and sexy and gorgeous and loves me so much…he even tells me that while having sex sometimes….he knows that almost any guy would want me…we both know how to kiss and loved the way we kissed each other… so I really don’t know what it is. I feel rejected kind of like taken for granted and another apart of me feels like it’s my fault but I cannot pinpoint it. I am really sad by this situation.
July 11th, 2010
July 8th, 2010
