September 30th, 2009
P Tab asked:
Save My Marriage Today is an ebook having great tips that help you to know proven methods to getting your marriage back on track – even if you are struggling to communicate with your spouse. In it, Amy Waterman, the author of this ebook, shares the important tips to rescue marriage and get back on track to a healthy, long-lasting and fulfilling relationship. The steps given in this book are the most practical, easy-to-follow and comprehensive systems that helps you to practice with ease and are very effective.
Together with Save My Marriage Today you can find a free 6-Day Mini E-course that includes, The top six predictors of divorce, the top six predictors of a long-lasting marriage, how to prevent the problems and how to communicate better, and more. Here you can learn more about the most destructive things in a marriage crisis that you’re probably doing that leads to divorce, the 3 things that most people do to win their partners back after a split, essential things you must know in order to remain positive in the midst of all the negative emotions and how to stop your slave emotion towards your spouse.
The ideas given in this ebook shows you simple but powerful psychological tricks that will help you to put your mind in a place of happiness and relaxation, that leads to save your marriage. You can also find incredibly powerful strategies for resolving your marriage conflicts in a more constructive and less emotionally stressful way. It includes an important step-by-step exercise to identifying exactly what your needs are, as a person, and discovers the truth about trial separations. Amy Waterman’s guide explains how to respond to criticisms and attacks from your partner plus you have 4 practical step-by-step exercises for gaining back love and respect for your partner.
In Save My Marriage Today you will find six exclusive super bonuses that includes, Stress: The Silent Killer – A Comprehensive Guide to Wellness & Inner Peace, Seven Ways to Live Life to the Max, How to Be Happy, The Journey – How to Gain the Life of Your Dreams, How to Cheat Proof Your Relationship, Save Your Marriage Email Consultation. And this book also allows you to get over 30 exercises to get your marriage back on track that helps you to learn as fast without any stress. In addition you have instant money back guarantee for 8 weeks, so make use of it and solve almost any marital conflict.
Save My Marriage Today is an ebook having great tips that help you to know proven methods to getting your marriage back on track – even if you are struggling to communicate with your spouse. In it, Amy Waterman, the author of this ebook, shares the important tips to rescue marriage and get back on track to a healthy, long-lasting and fulfilling relationship. The steps given in this book are the most practical, easy-to-follow and comprehensive systems that helps you to practice with ease and are very effective.
Together with Save My Marriage Today you can find a free 6-Day Mini E-course that includes, The top six predictors of divorce, the top six predictors of a long-lasting marriage, how to prevent the problems and how to communicate better, and more. Here you can learn more about the most destructive things in a marriage crisis that you’re probably doing that leads to divorce, the 3 things that most people do to win their partners back after a split, essential things you must know in order to remain positive in the midst of all the negative emotions and how to stop your slave emotion towards your spouse.
The ideas given in this ebook shows you simple but powerful psychological tricks that will help you to put your mind in a place of happiness and relaxation, that leads to save your marriage. You can also find incredibly powerful strategies for resolving your marriage conflicts in a more constructive and less emotionally stressful way. It includes an important step-by-step exercise to identifying exactly what your needs are, as a person, and discovers the truth about trial separations. Amy Waterman’s guide explains how to respond to criticisms and attacks from your partner plus you have 4 practical step-by-step exercises for gaining back love and respect for your partner.
In Save My Marriage Today you will find six exclusive super bonuses that includes, Stress: The Silent Killer – A Comprehensive Guide to Wellness & Inner Peace, Seven Ways to Live Life to the Max, How to Be Happy, The Journey – How to Gain the Life of Your Dreams, How to Cheat Proof Your Relationship, Save Your Marriage Email Consultation. And this book also allows you to get over 30 exercises to get your marriage back on track that helps you to learn as fast without any stress. In addition you have instant money back guarantee for 8 weeks, so make use of it and solve almost any marital conflict.
September 12th, 2009
Patty M&M asked:
My husband is an alcoholic. We have been married for seven years. I have tried for nearly four years to get him to get help for himself and lead a more sober life. This including a year of marriage counseling. I am moving out next week. I still love him but know I can no longer live with an alcoholic. Is there anything I can do to get him to get help for himself and hopefully save our marriage???
My husband is an alcoholic. We have been married for seven years. I have tried for nearly four years to get him to get help for himself and lead a more sober life. This including a year of marriage counseling. I am moving out next week. I still love him but know I can no longer live with an alcoholic. Is there anything I can do to get him to get help for himself and hopefully save our marriage???
September 8th, 2009
September 8th, 2009
September 7th, 2009
Diane Gray
asked:
Marriage is a very serious institution. Nobody should enter into it lightly, or end it lightly. It’s one of the most important commitments in couples’ lives. Once your vow is spoken you should be willing to work hard at it to keep it healthy and strong. If your marriage is in trouble, you are probably asking: Can my marriage be saved? Read and learn some tips here that might just start you on your way to saving your marriage.
Your first priority is to ask yourself some tough questions. At the top of the list is, Do your really want to save your marriage? This may sound like an obvious and rather dumb question, but many folks will stay in a bad marriage for the simple reason that they think they should. If you really feel that you should stay in a bad relationship, subconsciously you will be sabotaging it. If your heart tells you that you don’t want to be in your marriage, you can never really have a good, healthy one.
After you’ve searched your heart and soul for your true feelings about the marriage, and you’ve decided that you want to stay married to your spouse, the next thing to ask yourself is ‘What is wrong with my marriage, and what did I do to contribute to the breakdown’? This is a hard question since it is much easier to see your partner’s damaging behavior than your own.
The reality in the vast majority of marriages is that both partners play a part in the marriage’s breakdown. It may not be a 50/50 split, it could be 90/10, but in reality both partners have contributed to the marital problems in some way. Maybe it could be just letting your spouse walk all over you constantly on an issue because you didn’t stand up for yourself. Then, all of a sudden one day you wake up and discover you’re fed up. Your spouse doesn’t know what happened since you’ve always acted in the same easy-going predictable way. He or she will be hurt because you’ve always said nothing in your defense.
Once you have owned up to your part of the marriage problems, you need to ask yourself, ‘Can I make the changes necessary’? Be honest with yourself. These changes will need to be real and permanent. If you can honestly answer yes, then you need to go and talk to your partner and ask them the same questions about themselves.
If your spouse tells you that yes, they are willing to try then your marriage has a chance of healing. But if they blame the demise of your marriage on you, and deny any blame in the failure of the marriage, then you will know that it is already over.
Hopefully, this bit of information will help you to repair your marriage. It is really unhealthy and stressful to be trapped in a bad marriage, but you surely don’t want to throw away a potentially good marriage before you can at least analyze it and try to make it work. After you have honestly answered these questions, take the time to have a long, amicable talk with your spouse. Maybe then you won’t ever ask the question ‘Can my marriage be saved’?
asked:
Marriage is a very serious institution. Nobody should enter into it lightly, or end it lightly. It’s one of the most important commitments in couples’ lives. Once your vow is spoken you should be willing to work hard at it to keep it healthy and strong. If your marriage is in trouble, you are probably asking: Can my marriage be saved? Read and learn some tips here that might just start you on your way to saving your marriage.
Your first priority is to ask yourself some tough questions. At the top of the list is, Do your really want to save your marriage? This may sound like an obvious and rather dumb question, but many folks will stay in a bad marriage for the simple reason that they think they should. If you really feel that you should stay in a bad relationship, subconsciously you will be sabotaging it. If your heart tells you that you don’t want to be in your marriage, you can never really have a good, healthy one.
After you’ve searched your heart and soul for your true feelings about the marriage, and you’ve decided that you want to stay married to your spouse, the next thing to ask yourself is ‘What is wrong with my marriage, and what did I do to contribute to the breakdown’? This is a hard question since it is much easier to see your partner’s damaging behavior than your own.
The reality in the vast majority of marriages is that both partners play a part in the marriage’s breakdown. It may not be a 50/50 split, it could be 90/10, but in reality both partners have contributed to the marital problems in some way. Maybe it could be just letting your spouse walk all over you constantly on an issue because you didn’t stand up for yourself. Then, all of a sudden one day you wake up and discover you’re fed up. Your spouse doesn’t know what happened since you’ve always acted in the same easy-going predictable way. He or she will be hurt because you’ve always said nothing in your defense.
Once you have owned up to your part of the marriage problems, you need to ask yourself, ‘Can I make the changes necessary’? Be honest with yourself. These changes will need to be real and permanent. If you can honestly answer yes, then you need to go and talk to your partner and ask them the same questions about themselves.
If your spouse tells you that yes, they are willing to try then your marriage has a chance of healing. But if they blame the demise of your marriage on you, and deny any blame in the failure of the marriage, then you will know that it is already over.
Hopefully, this bit of information will help you to repair your marriage. It is really unhealthy and stressful to be trapped in a bad marriage, but you surely don’t want to throw away a potentially good marriage before you can at least analyze it and try to make it work. After you have honestly answered these questions, take the time to have a long, amicable talk with your spouse. Maybe then you won’t ever ask the question ‘Can my marriage be saved’?
