dansmith1234 asked:


Regardless of gender and orientation , the government would issue only certificates for civil union. If your church allows you to get married. you have a religious ceremony and that is the marriage. if the churches don’t recognize it you have a judge or other public official do the ceremony. This would get the government out of the issue of defining marriage. All family bindings would be called civil unions for tax and other legal purposes. Would you agree to this solution? explain why or why not?

Robert Linley asked:




There comes a time in your married life when you must do something or else your marriage is going to end in divorce. You can read all the save my marriage books that you want to but until you recognize the problem you cannot solve the problem. How do you narrow down all the problems that have began to accumulate to find the one problem that caused all of this? There are several ways to break it down to find out what caused the spiral but you won’t be able to do this alone.

First you need to sit down and talk to each other. Grab a pen and piece of paper so you can write down everything you discuss. You are probably already experiencing tension between the two of you so you need to agree to keep down the arguing and disagreements so you can try to work this out. Both of you need a piece of paper and pencil so you can write down things. You want to write down what you are having a problem with the most and how you would like to change this. Remember that you are not going to like everything you hear but you both need to be honest in order to clear the air and reach an agreement.

After a long conversation and all the many problems you need to work through, you will need to take a break and think about your list. Meet back together the next night so you can find ways to work on getting along. This is much better than reading one of those save my marriage books. You need to actually talk in order to work things out.

The next night when you meet back you can go over the list and decide how you plan to solve your problems. Both of you will need to change to some extent. If you do not know where to begin, start with the basic changes. You know what you need to change; don’t yell as much, try smiling at each other, try sitting down watching a movie together, and more. Remember it will take considerable effort to get along because you have probably been fighting for quite some time.

Not getting along usually includes yelling at each other every chance you get. You may avoid being in the same room together, sitting together, and eating together. But it’s time to get back together but work on it slowly otherwise it will feel like you are smothering

You don’t need someone else to tell you how to get along or how to save my marriage but you do need to be reminded of how much you love each other now and how much you use to love each other.

Simon Bendon asked:




Most people who are in failing marriages want to save their marriage. Bad marriages are not usually caused by one of the couples falling out of love, or one of the couples looking for a new partner, no way. Most marriages fail for simple and stupid reasons, it could be because either of you is too wrapped up into a career or some other aspect of your life. Or in most cases they fail, because you don’t enjoy the company of your partner, and vice versa.

How Can I Save My Marriage?

You can save your marriage by simply putting in some effort into the things you do together. You should have a evening dedicated to spending time with your partner, where you both do something together that you enjoy, it can be anything. I can’t tell you what to do, because I don’t know you. But I can tell you that this is the most important thing in your marriage, spending time with your spouse doing something you both enjoy, and communicating. Communication is key to a happy marriage, you need to be asking your spouse how they are, how they’re feeling, how their day has been every single day! Show some interest! Don’t just agree with what your spouse is saying either, have an opinion, respect your partners, have a conversation!

Surprise your spouse every once in a while, let them know you appreciate the things they do for you and your family. It could be something like buying flowers out of the blue. Or even a small kiss on the cheek! Show some appreciation and some love and you’ll be on the road to a successful marriage – good luck!

liskaraze asked:

Me and My husband Have been falling apart for about 6 mounths now, He dosent want to hug,me , kiss me, make love he also wont let me hold him at night anymore. He say he just wants to be left alone but it is breaking my heart. I feel lost someone give me some advise to help save our marriage, I love him so much and would do anything to save this marriage.

Zac Johnson asked:




For many families out in the world divorce is never an easy option. Many marriages are failing due to the high rate of infidelity and other factors. No longer is there a stigma associated with getting a divorce. However, for many men and women the vows they took on their wedding day were taken with the utmost sincerity and many believe that they should at least attempt to save their relationship with their spouse.

Marriage counseling is provided in many cases through your local Church or Temple and this is often the best case scenario. The reason that many churches offer this type of service is to save their members the often costly use of some sort of outside professional. Many marriage counselors are trained in conflict resolution and many times your local pastor or elder has taken courses to become certified in this subject. Utilize free services before you tap into your local psychologist. It will not only save your marriage but can save your wallet from the high cost of trying to fix your relationship.

If you are not a religious person perhaps there are other groups in your area that offer low cost or free marriage counselors. This is the second best option to have as these professionals are trying to save your marriage not out of some need for money but a true love for what they do. There are many people out there that are willing to sacrifice their own time in order to save another couple from the pain of divorce.

There are numerous success stories of couples that have reunited because of the success of these programs. In many cases the breakdown in the marriage has to do with a lack of communication between the husband and wife. To get your marriage back on track sometimes you need an outside mediator to restore the lines of communication. Without proper understanding of each other relationships are bound to failure.

To see outside help is one sign that there is still love in the relationship. This act demonstrates to the other person how sincere you are in saving what was once a wonderful partnership.