im currently going through a divorce with my wife(i haven’t filled yet) but i don’t want to get the divorce. a couple moths ago my wife decides she wants a divorce after she kissed my ex best friend. to avoid problems i just agreed. we had just set up for xmas and she promised that she would spend xmas with me and go back to cali jan 1st. then her sister started calling her and bugging her to come home for xmas even though she clearly told her sevral times she promised to be with me for xmas and she didn’t wanna let me down. then her dad called and said to come home. she told him the same thing that she told her sister. after we got moved out she said she really wanted to be with her family for xmas. i was devastated but i kept my mouth shut just so she would be happy. we got into a small arguement last week and she decided to go back to cali early. so i took her back on fri nov 28th. she left me with the divorce papers so i could file them and get the ball rolling. i still haven’t told her that i don’t want a divorce. i love her to death. im afraid of losing her, but im afraid that if she finds out i didn’t file yet that i will lose her as a friend…if i cant have a relationship with her i at least wanna stay friends. what should i do? is there a way i can save my marriage at this point?