June 26th, 2010
June 25th, 2010
Amber asked:
Well I have never had sex before…me and my boyfriend want to save it for marriage, but in mid April, curiosity got the best of us. We did NOT have sex, but he put the tip of his penis around my vagina and a little inside, but not all the way and there was no thrusting. It was only rubbing and inside a tiny bit (just the tip) for a couple seconds. He had not ejaculated before on that day and had urinated since his last ejaculation. We made sure there was no pre cum. My period is a week and a day late, and I am scared that I might be pregnant. Can anyone tell me what the chances are of me being pregnant?
I am 15…
We did NOT have sex…just a little rubbing around my viginal area…
Not going to have sex till I am married and definitely am not going to let curiosity get the best of me again…
I do not think I am pregnant, but I am very paranoid and would just like to know for sure…
Well I have never had sex before…me and my boyfriend want to save it for marriage, but in mid April, curiosity got the best of us. We did NOT have sex, but he put the tip of his penis around my vagina and a little inside, but not all the way and there was no thrusting. It was only rubbing and inside a tiny bit (just the tip) for a couple seconds. He had not ejaculated before on that day and had urinated since his last ejaculation. We made sure there was no pre cum. My period is a week and a day late, and I am scared that I might be pregnant. Can anyone tell me what the chances are of me being pregnant?
I am 15…
We did NOT have sex…just a little rubbing around my viginal area…
Not going to have sex till I am married and definitely am not going to let curiosity get the best of me again…
I do not think I am pregnant, but I am very paranoid and would just like to know for sure…
June 25th, 2010
Brad asked:
Anyone have any good tips for dealing with someones history?
Anyone have any good tips for dealing with someones history?
Theres a girl I’m with now and I like her a ton, but she’s way way way more experienced and that has me nervous and feeling inadequate, and then other times I just catch myself thinking about her history and kinda getting intimidated/creeped out by it. She’s been with a LOT of guys which normally scares me away, but she’s tamed down since graduating college, and I was saving myself for marriage (although I’m now divorced).
June 24th, 2010
Martin J Waterson asked:
I am happily married for almost 24 years. But it wasn’t always great. I made more mistakes than you can shake a stick at and quite honestly, there was a time when I didn’t think we were going to make it. But today, we have a wonderful 19 year old daughter and our life couldn’t be better. So how did we do it? Well, this article will provide you with three solid tips that work and should help you a lot in saving your marriage.
The first thing I learned, and this was the hardest lesson of all, was that it didn’t matter what I thought as far as who was at fault. In the mind of my wife, it was my fault. I had to accept that because unless I was willing to do that, there was no way to move forward. See, pride is a terrible thing. We never like to admit that we might be wrong about something. We’d rather blame everything on the other person. It might make us feel better, but it doesn’t help solve the problem. So that’s the first step…take responsibility.
The next thing you have to do, after you’ve taken responsibility for your part of the problem is admit this to your partner. Sit down and have a heart to heart. Lay all your cards out on the table. I remember the most important conversion I ever had with my wife. It started something like this…
“Honey, I know I’ve been a jerk. There is no excuse for the way I’ve been acting. You didn’t deserve the attitude you’ve been getting from me and I’m going to change. I don’t expect you to believe that because talk is cheap, so I’m just going to show you. Give me another chance.”
And I left it at that. My wife didn’t know what to say as this was coming from a person who was always blaming everything on her and the rest of the world. Nothing was my fault. What this does is it totally disarms your partner. If you take all the blame, they can’t really say anything back to you, at least nothing negative. That is why this is so effective.
Finally, don’t pressure your partner to take you back, if things have indeed gotten that bad. Maybe you’ve just reached the point where you’re sleeping on the couch. Whatever it is, don’t push it. Your partner will come to you when they see how you’ve changed. And that’s the real key…you MUST make an honest effort to fix what’s wrong. Otherwise, all of this is pointless.
Follow these three tips and you’ll find that your marriage is on the way to salvation. If you need more help, I’ve reviewed a great book on this subject, that I wish had come out when I first got married. It would have made my life a lot easier. You can find the review in my signature.
To YOUR Relationship Success,
Martin J Waterson
I am happily married for almost 24 years. But it wasn’t always great. I made more mistakes than you can shake a stick at and quite honestly, there was a time when I didn’t think we were going to make it. But today, we have a wonderful 19 year old daughter and our life couldn’t be better. So how did we do it? Well, this article will provide you with three solid tips that work and should help you a lot in saving your marriage.
The first thing I learned, and this was the hardest lesson of all, was that it didn’t matter what I thought as far as who was at fault. In the mind of my wife, it was my fault. I had to accept that because unless I was willing to do that, there was no way to move forward. See, pride is a terrible thing. We never like to admit that we might be wrong about something. We’d rather blame everything on the other person. It might make us feel better, but it doesn’t help solve the problem. So that’s the first step…take responsibility.
The next thing you have to do, after you’ve taken responsibility for your part of the problem is admit this to your partner. Sit down and have a heart to heart. Lay all your cards out on the table. I remember the most important conversion I ever had with my wife. It started something like this…
“Honey, I know I’ve been a jerk. There is no excuse for the way I’ve been acting. You didn’t deserve the attitude you’ve been getting from me and I’m going to change. I don’t expect you to believe that because talk is cheap, so I’m just going to show you. Give me another chance.”
And I left it at that. My wife didn’t know what to say as this was coming from a person who was always blaming everything on her and the rest of the world. Nothing was my fault. What this does is it totally disarms your partner. If you take all the blame, they can’t really say anything back to you, at least nothing negative. That is why this is so effective.
Finally, don’t pressure your partner to take you back, if things have indeed gotten that bad. Maybe you’ve just reached the point where you’re sleeping on the couch. Whatever it is, don’t push it. Your partner will come to you when they see how you’ve changed. And that’s the real key…you MUST make an honest effort to fix what’s wrong. Otherwise, all of this is pointless.
Follow these three tips and you’ll find that your marriage is on the way to salvation. If you need more help, I’ve reviewed a great book on this subject, that I wish had come out when I first got married. It would have made my life a lot easier. You can find the review in my signature.
To YOUR Relationship Success,
Martin J Waterson
June 23rd, 2010
AzN BiKeR asked:
I’m a good boy always got good marks in school and I am Filipino. I treat women with respect and i always wear a tie to a date even if its just for some coffee(yuk!) but i need honest feedback would you date an asian guy cuz i know some girls dont like asians but im a gentlemen and i always say the right thing my friends that r girls say…i never kiss on a first date and i am saving sex for marriage cuz of my cathlic upbringing…btw i look like i do in that avatar so would u date me if u knew me n thought i was a good person??? any tips are appreciated…….^_^
mexican girls are ok too just i already know asians will date me but i just wonder if others will
blkgirl i wasnt asking u……
I’m a good boy always got good marks in school and I am Filipino. I treat women with respect and i always wear a tie to a date even if its just for some coffee(yuk!) but i need honest feedback would you date an asian guy cuz i know some girls dont like asians but im a gentlemen and i always say the right thing my friends that r girls say…i never kiss on a first date and i am saving sex for marriage cuz of my cathlic upbringing…btw i look like i do in that avatar so would u date me if u knew me n thought i was a good person??? any tips are appreciated…….^_^
mexican girls are ok too just i already know asians will date me but i just wonder if others will
blkgirl i wasnt asking u……
