June 2nd, 2010
I’m a virgin and think I’m ready to have sex. My boyfriend and I have been an official ‘couple’ for 6 months, although I’ve known him for 8 years since both of our families are friends. He has been in my life since I was 8 years old and I don’t think I know anyone better than him. I do love him and can believe him when he says he loves me, and we are both ready to share our first time with each other.
However, I’m very nervous and scared. I fear God’s opinion most of all, much more so than the opinions of my family, friends, and peers. I always planned on saving myself for marriage; but everything within me is telling me I’m ready. What can I expect for my first time? We are definitely using protection, and I want to get on birth control pills, but I’m not sure if I’d be able to obtain them without a parent.
And no; I’m afraid I don’t feel comfortable asking my mother for birth control pills just yet. She probably won’t abide anyway, and I would rather be safe than sorry; but she doesn’t view the pill the same way as I do.
So what should I expect? Any tips for my first time? Would I be able to get birth control under the age of 18? Thank you!
February 24th, 2010
must see a priest, minister, an of the cloth to join them as one, thus leading to scriptural “permission” to be intimate, sexual activity joining as one.
Seeking real answers, not an interpretation that is to benefit ones lifestyle.
2nd, Is it a sin for people to have sex with the feelings they are connected by God and feel as if they have been destined to be together?
Thank you in advance for answers.
