June 18th, 2010
Sally A asked:
hey guys. so im 16 and ive just recently started becoming interested in having sex. ive just started going out with this guy and he has had sex before, so that got me thinking about my morals. personally, ive decided that i know im probably going to have sex with my boyfriend (only AFTER weve gone out for a while and i feel comfortable of coarse)
so i started doing some research about the hymen and stuff, and i came across this link to an animated diagram of the vagina.
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/body/anatomy_pink_parts_female_sexual_anatomy (please look, its not gruesome at all, its animated)
at first, i just thought that you would just insert the penis into what is called “the labia” in this diagram and it was just one big whole and the penis would go up, but then i noticed a small little whole INSIDE the labia called the vaginal opening. i never noticed this before on myself, so with a mirror i checked myself out and realized that it isnt just one big whole, the labia is just the lips and that small whole is where the penis is supposed to go up (i think?) but HOW is the penise supposed to fit into THAT tiny little whole?! it looks like it could just fit a q-tip inside of it.
so now, im just super confused. i really need some help because its been bothering me the past few days. anyone have an answer??
hey guys. so im 16 and ive just recently started becoming interested in having sex. ive just started going out with this guy and he has had sex before, so that got me thinking about my morals. personally, ive decided that i know im probably going to have sex with my boyfriend (only AFTER weve gone out for a while and i feel comfortable of coarse)
so i started doing some research about the hymen and stuff, and i came across this link to an animated diagram of the vagina.
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/body/anatomy_pink_parts_female_sexual_anatomy (please look, its not gruesome at all, its animated)
at first, i just thought that you would just insert the penis into what is called “the labia” in this diagram and it was just one big whole and the penis would go up, but then i noticed a small little whole INSIDE the labia called the vaginal opening. i never noticed this before on myself, so with a mirror i checked myself out and realized that it isnt just one big whole, the labia is just the lips and that small whole is where the penis is supposed to go up (i think?) but HOW is the penise supposed to fit into THAT tiny little whole?! it looks like it could just fit a q-tip inside of it.
so now, im just super confused. i really need some help because its been bothering me the past few days. anyone have an answer??
PLEASE dont give me a big speach about how i should save myself until marriage. thats not what im asking.
June 12th, 2010
PossibiltyGirl asked:
I used to be a very prude, strong Christian girl. However, some very bad things happened in my life that changed everthing… One of the effects of the painful things was that I started messing around with guys. I’d done everything besides sex, because I always promised myself to save myself for marriage. However, this last thursday, while hooking up with this guy I’ve been seeing, he stuck his d*** in my v*****. i thought it was only the tip, but then he went all the way in. he pushed it in a few times, but stopped after less than 10 seconds. it hurt alot, and im sore and afterwards i bled a little (hymen popped?) ive been googling and some people say virginity is lost when the penis goes into the vag, but others say it happens through intercourse (which we didnt technically do). please help me out, ive been freaking out. i feel like im still a virgin, but i also think i might just be in denial. so please please please tell me,, am i still a virgin?
***btw, he’s had sex before. i talked to him and when i asked him about whether or not we did he said that we definitely didnt… he said he only stuck it in then back out, and not even all the way in. fyi
I used to be a very prude, strong Christian girl. However, some very bad things happened in my life that changed everthing… One of the effects of the painful things was that I started messing around with guys. I’d done everything besides sex, because I always promised myself to save myself for marriage. However, this last thursday, while hooking up with this guy I’ve been seeing, he stuck his d*** in my v*****. i thought it was only the tip, but then he went all the way in. he pushed it in a few times, but stopped after less than 10 seconds. it hurt alot, and im sore and afterwards i bled a little (hymen popped?) ive been googling and some people say virginity is lost when the penis goes into the vag, but others say it happens through intercourse (which we didnt technically do). please help me out, ive been freaking out. i feel like im still a virgin, but i also think i might just be in denial. so please please please tell me,, am i still a virgin?
***btw, he’s had sex before. i talked to him and when i asked him about whether or not we did he said that we definitely didnt… he said he only stuck it in then back out, and not even all the way in. fyi
