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Jamaluddin Abdul Muthalib asked:




Marriage is an institution in which interpersonal relationships are acknowledged by the state or by religious authority. It is often viewed as a contract. People marry for many reasons, but usually one or more of the following: legal, social, and economic stability; the formation of a family unit; procreation and the education and nurturing of children; legitimizing sexual relations; public declaration of love; or to obtain citizenship.

It’s truly sad to hear of marriages in trouble. Nobody wants trouble, but trouble does happen. You may ask your self whether you can save your marriage or not?” My answer is yes, why? Because when you ask yourself that question means you do want to save your marriage. Because if you never think of that question, there is no way you can save your marriage. But how can you save your marriage? Here are 4 tips on how to save your marriage. You and your spouse can apply these tips today to start the process of saving your relationship and marriage.

1. More communication Communication is important in our live, so it same to marriage. If you fail to communicate with your partner, it’s about time your marriage will over. The most common reason to marriage problem is fail to communicate or miscommunication between spouses. When problems arise, people stop talking to each other. Simply put, a marriage cannot be saved if the couple can’t figure things out together. When a new problem appears, a married couple needs to talk more, not less.

2. Compromise Compromise means respect between spouses. You must allow your love to have a higher priority than the matter at hand. When you compromise doesn’t mean you allow your partner to control you, but it mean respect your spouse right. Keep a side you ego and be the first to compromise and you will surprise that you are half-way to save your marriage.

3. Make effort to show more love and affection Most of the time marriage breaks down only because the person feels that they are not being loved or care by his/her partner. After five years of marriage most of couple fail to show love to their spouse. All couples must remember that feeling loved is essential. You must make effort to show your love and affection to your partner.

4. Forgiveness Forgiveness is very important in relationship including marriage. Try to forgive and forget. Everybody make mistake. Give changes to your partner. Forgiveness is power full but difficult, that why it’s powerful. With love, compromise and communication, it is easier to forgive and forget. If ever, you are asking the question “Can I save my marriage?”, try to apply these 4 tips into your situation. You will be pleasantly surprised at the healing and rebuilding that can be achieved in your marriage if you only give these a try. If you need help, you can always get help from marriage counseling like online counseling help at online marriage counseling

purple dove asked:


I have read lots of questions on here, from people against gay marriage and/or gay people just in general, basically just wanting people to agree with them. OK fine, i guess that is 1/2 of what this forum is about. But what i want to know is why when you disagree with them & state your opinion on whatever it is they asked, they automatically assume that you’re angry, defensive, not listening, etc etc etc?
What makes their opinions “just my opinions” & anyone who disagrees with them is either picking on them, being mean or in that whole angry, defensive, etc. category?
I just want to know why they can’t say they are “just expressing their feelings/opinions” & can’t accept that’s what others are doing as well?
BTW i am not gay, i am a bi woman, well not that either, i am a straight woman who happens to like to include a certain woman in some sexual activities. Put whatever label you want on that.
Basically i just believe in equality. OK done with my rant – have on with yours.
BTW i didn’t say anyone had to agree with the lifestyle, i said allow someone to have a different opinion and not automatically assume something about them becuase they do have a different opinion.

Abiodun Onipede asked:




What you are about to read is more than tips, they are the
hidden power those that have saved their marriages have applied. In
other word, I refer to them as “seven pillars of saving
marriage. “But before we go into that, permit me to ask you
these questions, does any of underlisted sounds familiar?

i]”I love you, but I am not in love with you anymore.”

ii]”I am not attracted to you any more.”

iii]”We got married for all the wrong reasons.”

iv]”Why can’t you just admit that we just made a mistake.”

v]”I never really love you in the first place.”

vi]”It is time to tell the kid it is over.”

vii]”My affair is not the reason our marriage is not working.”

viii]”I need my space or separation.”

The chances are your spouse might have released one or two of these “bombshell” at you and as a result you are feeling down. Also you, are wondering could this have come from the mouth of someone you both vowed “till death do us apart”? The good news about this that you are not alone and all these as might be applicable to you could be turned to opposite statements, if you are willing to act on the following save marital foundational truth:

1]Discover: That is find out the reason your marriage is having problem with open mind, often this not done and the problem will keeping drifting your marriage its untimely grave.

2]Pre-determine: That is right from the outset of your effort to save your marriage, you should imagine yourself and your spouse were in love as if you were just wedded.

3]Talk and Act Right: Do and say the right thing at the right time. For instance, don’t discuss your marital problem when your spouse is viewing his/her favorite TV program.

4]Keep Your Temper: Control your temper, this is not the best of time to flare up, friend, you are at a time you need to watch what ever come out of your mouth and your attitude.Remember the saying, “If you want to gather honey, you don’t kick the beehive.”

5]Patience: Yes you will need it. It will take time-just know that Rome was not built in a day. The troubles with your marriage did not start today, of truth your marriage can be saved, so don’t rush.

6]Compromise: As a matter of fact, this may even be one of the sources of your marital problem, base on the fact that marital relationship is best workable on mutual understanding and sometime allow other partner to save face on certain issues.

7]Forgive And Forget: The obligation here is very simple, do not dig about the past as well don’t try to score point with your spouse either you are the one at fault or not.

Finally,discovering these truth about how to get started to save your marriage is not only enough, as you will need to put them into action before you can get maximum benefits from them. And please don’t discard them, if you don’t want to court with frustration in the process of saving your marriage, as a matter of fact, irrespective of methods you intend to adopt to save your marriage, you will surely need one or all of these”save marriage foundational truth.

sunshinegirl802 asked:


I am saving myself for marriage & my boyfriend is not. I know he wants sex with me really really bad, and i want it too but tell him no everytime because i am REALLY serious about saving myself. Now we’ve done pretty much everything right up to intercourse but now i’m getting to the point where i don’t know what to do. Its soooo important to him & i always feel so bad whenever i say no. Does anyone have any really good tips on staying strong. I’m scared i’m gonna cave in very very soon. And please don’t tell me i should breakup with him b/c that’s not an option. thanks! =)

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