Dave asked:


I broke up with my girlfriend and because she was religious we never got to have sex. I loved her a lot and I wanted to lose it to her because I felt it was right to have sex with the person you love. We broke up because of timing problems (didn’t see a future, we’re too young)

I’m still a virgin myself but I am definitely a horny guy.
I just have strong principals myself. Just that after the break-up I have an urge to have oral sex with girls with no strings attached. I know that this will really stuff up my life and I am eventually going to be tempted to have sexual intercoarse with a girl.

Any tips on self-control? I also don’t want to be in a long-term relationship until I think I think I’m ready to get married.
I’m 22 btw

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belladonna.blue asked:

my boyfriend and i have decided not to have sex before marriage but he said we could do other sexual things.

I think that doing sexual things is pretty much the same sin as sex before marriage. I don’t think we should do any sexual things before marriage.