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nicesinging1 asked:


Hello. I am a 24 yr old guy who has been struggling mightily with a lust problem. I have a habit of occasional masturbation and watching porn. However, i am a virgin and will be that way till marriage.
I have tried extremely hard to put an end to my masturbation and porn habit. But I always fail. The longest I went without masturbation and porn is 60 days. I wish I would be able to totally refrain from masturbation and porn so I can feel not guilty and totally concentrate all my efforts and hearts on what is more important such as careers, school, friendship.
It seems my efforts is not enough because I really tried extremely hard for long duration of time to be free from these sins. But the fact is I am still struggling.
I need some serious advices and suggestions on how to curb these habits completely. Can you offer me some serious advice?

Dave asked:


I broke up with my girlfriend and because she was religious we never got to have sex. I loved her a lot and I wanted to lose it to her because I felt it was right to have sex with the person you love. We broke up because of timing problems (didn’t see a future, we’re too young)

I’m still a virgin myself but I am definitely a horny guy.
I just have strong principals myself. Just that after the break-up I have an urge to have oral sex with girls with no strings attached. I know that this will really stuff up my life and I am eventually going to be tempted to have sexual intercoarse with a girl.

PossibiltyGirl asked:


I used to be a very prude, strong Christian girl. However, some very bad things happened in my life that changed everthing… One of the effects of the painful things was that I started messing around with guys. I’d done everything besides sex, because I always promised myself to save myself for marriage. However, this last thursday, while hooking up with this guy I’ve been seeing, he stuck his d*** in my v*****. i thought it was only the tip, but then he went all the way in. he pushed it in a few times, but stopped after less than 10 seconds. it hurt alot, and im sore and afterwards i bled a little (hymen popped?) ive been googling and some people say virginity is lost when the penis goes into the vag, but others say it happens through intercourse (which we didnt technically do). please help me out, ive been freaking out. i feel like im still a virgin, but i also think i might just be in denial. so please please please tell me,, am i still a virgin?
***btw, he’s had sex before. i talked to him and when i asked him about whether or not we did he said that we definitely didnt… he said he only stuck it in then back out, and not even all the way in. fyi

Bob asked:


Well, I’m a 23 year old male, and I’m getting married to this very beautiful woman that I love soon, but the thing Is I never want to have sex with her… ever! I think sex Is wrong and overrated In any relationship, especially marriage an It’s something I never want to be a part of! There are plenty of other activities to do In a marriage besides have sex, like go for a swim, eat and a movie, or play some fun board games. I just don’t get the point of sex, seriously? I’m not gay or nothing and I don’t need counseling, I had plenty of girlfriends In my life and I’m a virgin. I just hope my fiancee don’t give me such a hard time and agree with me? Btw, I love to masturbate alot, and I heard that It feels way better than sex, and It has more pleasure In It. I’m just a little confused to be honest, some opinions, suggestions, or feedback would help alot, thanks!